Days Of Diwali: Bhai Dooj Festivities Celebrate Sibling Love

By Ritika Jayaswal

There are several facets to the world renowned festival of Diwali. It is celebrated for five days in most of northern India and Bhai Dooj (also known as Bhai Duj, Bhaiya Dooj, Bhaubeej, Bhai Beej or Bhai Bij, in diifferent parts of India) is observed on the last day of the festival.

The Puja procedure, artistically decorated thali, vibrant colors, the significance of the ‘tilak‘ and most importantly the special bond of love, between brother and sister make this an incredibly significant festival.

The Bhai Dooj / Bhaubeej festival which predates Rakshabandhan is more widely celebrated in Northern India. It brings together brothers and sisters who are separated by distances and social obligations. The ‘tilak‘ which the sister applies on her brother’s forehead is considered very auspicious and is the main significance of the festival apart from Bhai Dooj gifts and sweets.

The festival is celebrated in the month of October – November, two days after Diwali day. Though the date is not fixed it falls on the new moon night and is accurately calculated by pandits. In 2010, the Bhai Dooj date falls on November 7.

This festival augments the brother sister bond and is highly revered by Hindus. There are several stories supporting the festival. It is believed that Yamraj, the God of Death, visited his sister, Yamuna, on this day.

Yamuna applied the vermillion tilak on his forehead and put a garland around him, wishing him well. They exchanged gifts and sweets. Yamraj was so pleased that he announced that anyone who gets a vermillion tilak on this auspicious day will never be led through hell’s doors. Therefore Bhai Dooj is also known as Yama Dwitiya.

Another legend emphasizes that after vanquishing the demon, Narakasura, Lord Krishna went to his sister Subhadra’s house. She welcomed him with aarti (a lit diya), flowers and sweets. She then applied the tilak on his forehead. Since then it is believed that on the day of Bhai Dooj / Bhaubeej the brother goes to the sister’s house and the vermillion tilak is a symbol of love and prayers from a sister to her brother.

Bhai Dooj celebrates the special bond of love between brother and sister

The festival is celebrated with much gusto by all people who observe Diwali. Puja is performed at the same place where deities were bedecked for Diwali. Sisters apply tilak on the brother’s forehead, perform the aarti and offer sweets.

The aarti is accompanied by a beautifully decorated thali which contains roli and rice in specific Katoris. Thalis are festooned with colored grains, pepper, buds, petals, leaves, beads and sequins. Bhai Dooj sweets are also an important part of the thali.

The festival is also known as Bhai Phota, Bhatri Ditya, Bhai Tika, Bhathru Dwithiya and Yama Dwithiya. The celebrations mark a family get together and are occasions of jubilation. In some parts of the country there are special cultural events organized to mark the celebration.

Mithai sweets unique to the festival and other gifts are exchanged as a part of the revelry. Siblings separated by distances can send gifts to India using online shopping marts. Sending Bhaubeej /Bhai Dooj sweets to India is now easy with numerous online marts that efficiently cater to the needs of customers.

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