Archive for: Discipline

Positive Classroom Discipline Techniques: Teaching Kids To Self-Discipline

Aug 19th, 2010

Positive Classroom Discipline Techniques: Teaching Kids To Self-Discipline

Classroom discipline is mandatory but its implementation style is equally important. Overly disciplinarian and authoritarian ways can mar a child’s personality. Positive classroom discipline techniques can teach kids to respect teachers and themselves.

‘I Don’t Want To Go To School!’ And What You Can Do About It

Aug 17th, 2010

‘I Don’t Want To Go To School!’ And What You Can Do About It

If you’re a parent, it’s almost inevitable that you’re going to be faced with your child not wanting to go to school at some point. The most important thing is that you identify the problem correctly and find out whether not going to school is the symptom of a bigger problem or just your child's way of avoiding responsibility.

Step-Parent Advice: Winning Ways For Non-Biological Moms And Dads

Aug 15th, 2010

Step-Parent Advice: Winning Ways For Non-Biological Moms And Dads

Parenting is the most important job of our lives, and often considered the most difficult too. If that is true, then step-parenting would become a close-to-impossible job! It doesn’t have to be that way, though - here are a few tips to help step-parents surmount some of the hurdles and pitfalls.

Does Your Child Have ‘Toxic’ Friends? 6 Ways To Deal With The Wrong Crowd

Aug 12th, 2010

Does Your Child Have ‘Toxic’ Friends? 6 Ways To Deal With The Wrong Crowd

The old axiom is true - birds of a feather do flock together - and that’s especially accurate in adolescence. So what do you do when you when you don’t like your child’s friends? James Lehman offers parents 6 ways to deal with the 'wrong crowd'.

Parenting Tip: Do You Play ‘Good Cop – Bad Cop’?

Aug 9th, 2010

Parenting Tip: Do You Play ‘Good Cop – Bad Cop’?

If you and your spouse take opposing roles in dealing with your kids, you're not alone. Many parents take on the roles of 'good cop' and 'bad cop' in the family. Which 'cop' is right? And should you be a cop at all?

Child Behavior: Is Your Child Manipulating You?

Aug 6th, 2010

Child Behavior: Is Your Child Manipulating You?

Kids manipulate parents all the time using their charms and strengths to swing decisions in their favor. In reality, they are negotiating for power. Manipulative behavior springs from the need to manage, control and influence another for one’s own advantage. In children, it manifests itself in many forms, from a charming smile and whining, to serious threats.

Adolescent Behavior Part II: 8 Ways To Manage Acting-Out Kids

Aug 4th, 2010

Adolescent Behavior Part II: 8 Ways To Manage Acting-Out Kids

In part two of this series on adolescent behavior problems, James discusses eight ways to challenge acting out behavior in kids today - from disrespect to breaking curfew to alcohol and substance abuse - in order to start changing your child's behavior tomorrow.

Adolescent Phase – Or Out-of-Control Behavior?

Aug 4th, 2010

Adolescent Phase – Or Out-of-Control Behavior?

“Every teen goes through this!” You tell yourself these words, but in the back of your mind, you wonder if your child’s disrespect, acting out and destructive behavior really is normal. How do you know if your child is going through an adolescent phase, or if his out-of-control behavior is here to stay? James Lehman has the answer in Part 1 of this 2-part series.

Is It Okay To Spoil Your Kids?

Aug 2nd, 2010

Is It Okay To Spoil Your Kids?

None of us want ‘spoiled’ kids - kids who are bratty, self-centered, demanding, inconsiderate. So, what spoils children and what doesn’t? We can spoil our children with material things, but we can’t spoil them with love, says Dr. Margaret Paul. Love is the energy of acceptance for who the child really is.